As a parent struggling to raise children with neurobehavioral conditions, or brain differences as we say at home, daily life is often fraught with challenges. Parents of neurotypical children can rarely relate to our struggles or the unconventional way we now parent our children. The standard parenting trope seems to rely heavily on shaming, blaming and judging parents and children who deviate from whatever the current “good parents/good kids” looks like. Good parents don’t let their kids do___ . Good parenting looks like ___. You can fill in the blanks.
